Someone googled “what to do when husband beats you and you have kids” and they came to my site.

Many people on the internet are jokesters and fools. Some people on social networking sites are stalkers or bullies. But most people are honest, hardworking people who are looking for reliable answers to tough questions.

I don’t mind offering advice on my blog because the internet helped me save orphaned kittens. As I build my business, other bloggers have offered solid advice during difficult contract negotiations. Lately, I have been trying to figure out why my husband and I argue about the same six things over and again. Turns out that most people fight about a few core things. Be kind and generous with your partner, and you’ll probably work through those issues.

So what do you do when your husband beats you and you have kids?

You find your people, of course. Visit forums and learn from men and women who have experienced everything you’re currently experiencing. Read blog posts from the people who know the ins and outs of your situation. Follow Twitter feeds and join Facebook groups where you can gain some real insight into the challenges you will face if you stay or if you leave.

And call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−7233 or TTY 1−800−787−3224.

My website is all about work, life and cats. While I have an opinion on what you should do if your husband beats you, there are much better sources out there.

Good luck.