Nobody with a vibrant hobby has time to be crabby about work.
Relationships are a two-way street. Your friends and colleagues are happy that you have a great job, but they have stuff to talk about, too.
If you’re so smart, why aren’t you your own boss?
If you are frustrated and your work isn’t appreciated, the answer isn’t to do more.
It’s possible to both be happy and have a mediocre job. But if you are happy, Forbes can’t ask writers to write for free and sell advertising on those articles. Stop the insanity. Stop reading Forbes.
Need I say more?